Sunday, October 28, 2007

Crash!

We are back from Melaka, Malaysia after an exhausting but fulfilling weekend of teaching. However, the bad news is that my notebook crashed! This means, I may have lost all my emails!!! Saving grace is that I still have some of them and most, if not all, of my emails addresses on my Blackberry.

The crash wasn't totally unexpected, though, as it has been acting up the last few months. Good thing I backed up some of my files a few weeks ago and at least I still have those. I may have had enough of PC's and may opt for an Apple next. As we have to leave early Tuesday morning for the US, I will not have time to get my notebook fixed (if possible at all!) nor buy a new one. I will have to wait till I get back in December before shopping for one. Meanwhile, I'll have to share Brian's notebook. Sigh... it's just not the same.

Can't write much this time as we've got to pack for our long trip... Will update you on how our trip is going whenever possible.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Last minute work

We will be going to Melaka in Malaysia again this weekend for our RZIM bi-annual training program. I leave on Thursday but Brian, who will be teaching for us again, will leave with the rest of my office team on Friday. We will be there till Sunday afternoon and should get home by evening.

Then immediately we will have to pack for our long trip to the US. This time, we will be in Los Cabos, Mexico for a few days (for RZIM's annual support-raising conference) before visiting LA for a week. We are really looking forward to visiting So. Cal. Other than seeing old friends again and visiting BIOLA, we look forward to getting reacquainted with our favorite food haunts - Marisa's (freshly made chips and salsa), In-N-Out Burger, Chili's (yummy boneless Shanghai wings), Pick Up Stix (American Chinese food which pleases even me!), etc.

After So. Cal., we will be flying to the east and spending a week in Newport News, Virginia and another week in Hampstead, Maryland. We look forward to spending Thanksgiving with Brian's mom's family. I, especially, love the smoked turkey which they so painstakingly prepare. Much more than anything else, I look forward to the cold weather and catching up on sleep and rest. I've been traveling so much and have had such a hectic schedule this year - I need a longer break badly.

Our December will entail much traveling as well - Philippines, Malaysia and then Cambodia. We hit the road again two days after we return from the US! So, these few weeks in November is the only respite we have before Christmas. Even then, we will have to do some work while we are on the road in the US.

We, of course, also look forward to the shopping - mostly stocking up on things which we cannot find here or are expensive if they are available. My detox formula, contact lens solution (currently not available in this part of the world), NyQuil, my Real Simple magazine, etc. Brian will of course be bringing books home with him!

We are thankful that this time we will have a friend house-sit for us while we are gone. Especially now that our apartment has a leakage problem. The waterproofing of one part of the external wall upstairs is problematic and rain water (a lot!) has been seeping into the house when it rains heavily. I hope our landlord will have the problem fixed soon!

I hope to be able to post once more before we leave next week. Well, if not, then I'll be sure to post while we are in the US. Till then, cheers...!

Thursday, October 11, 2007

End of Ramadan

Tomorrow marks the last day of a full month of fasting for the Muslims. As we live in a predominantly Malay/Muslim neighborhood, a huge bazaar is set-up throughout this month next to our apartment block. The night market sells everything from fried chicken, preserved dates to shoes, dresses and automobiles. As Muslims fast from sunrise to sundown, they usually break their fast with a sumptuous and usually big meal. So, contrary to what you'd expect, a lot of the Muslims I know actually gain weight during the month of Ramadan.


For very different reasons, we enjoy this month. For Brian, this is the time of the year when he can find his favorite chicken kebab right at his doorstep. There is also his favorite "pisang goreng" (banana fritters) - he often shows off his Malay by asking for "pisang goreng" and the stall owners never fail to be impressed.
For me, I love the "keropok lekor" they sell. It's some kind of Malay fish crackers/chips that you dip into sweet chili sauce. It's not something that I can find easily on normal days here but at the bazaar, they are in abundance.
The bazaar gets more crowded as the Muslim new year approaches and this evening, it was absolutely packed! Many are making their last minute shopping rounds and many stall owners are selling their wares at a discount before they close shop tomorrow night.














Beyond the religious significance, we absolutely love the richness of living in a racially and culturally pluralistic society.

Friday, October 5, 2007

I am an aunt!

I got a call from my mom at 7:30 am yesterday informing me that my cousin, Teng, has gone into labor. Such a buzz as it was to be the first baby of my generation in our family. By 5pm, I was officially an aunt (and Brian an Angmor/Kwailow/MatSalleh uncle) of baby girl, Xing Ru. I've yet to see how she looks like but since both her mom and dad are good looking, I am sure she'll be a hottie! I'll make sure to post her pixs once I get them.

I am so excited! And so overwhelmed by thoughts of what it means to bring a life into this world...

Congratulations, Teng and Vincent!


Pix just arrived!

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

India for better, for worse

As I am writing this, I am on a six-hour transit at Kolkata’s airport on my way home after almost two weeks here in India. However, I will only get to post this after I’m home tomorrow morning. So much has happened since I got here and I think the easiest way for me to tell you all that’s happened is chronologically.

First stop: Chennai
I arrived in Chennai late Sunday evening (Sept. 16) and started teaching at the RZIM Academy of Apologetics the next day. I spent the next five days here teaching at least two sessions a day. Nothing out of the ordinary happened here except that the entire batch of participants this time was male. So, you can imagine me, a foreign woman, teaching a bunch of men from India…interesting dynamics…


Oh, I also met this sweet boy – Suresh. He’s probably 12 years old and works for the caterer the Academy uses. However, India has strict regulations about child labor. Businesses are not supposed to employ anyone younger than 17. So, if anyone asks Suresh how old he is, he will say that he is 17 though there is no way he can be mistaken for any older than 13! You see, his is a sad but typical story here. He’s a sharp kid and very sweet and would love to go to school but his family needs him to help with the little that he makes. So, he has no choice but to work (and lie about his age!) He says that one day he hopes to go to school. My heart breaks as I listen to my colleague tell me Suresh’s story. Despite our language barrier, I was able to coax him into taking a picture with me.

Second stop: Pondicherry
Early Saturday morning, my colleague (and his wife) and I rented a car (along with a driver) to drive us to Pondicherry – a coastal town 3 hours away from Chennai, to teach at a two-day training program organized by the Pondicherry Apologetics Club. Had a wonderful time with the participants of the program despite my tiredness.


On the way there, while we all dozed off, we were suddenly awakened by a sudden screech of the brakes –we nearly hit a cow that was standing in the middle of the road. It didn’t look like it knew what it was doing. So, just like how we drive around animals that roam the rural roads of India, we drove round him. Crazy but true!
Pondicherry is an interesting town – reminded me of San Juan in Puerto Rico. Very old European. It used to be a French colony and the French’s influence is still very much evident. Quaint little town.
We stayed one night here and left Sunday evening back to Chennai.

Third stop: Traumatic Kolkata
My flight to Kolkata was at 5:50 in the morning. This meant I had to be at the airport by 4 am! Didn’t get much sleep that night. The flight in was short – two ho
urs. However, when we touched down, the captain announced that it will be another “bad” day in Kolkata. Apparently, it hadn’t stopped raining for a few days and the city is flooded!

Well, I didn’t think it was going to be that bad until we drove into the city…By the time I arrived at my hotel at 10:30 am, the water level at the entrance was slightly above the ankle. Nonetheless, I was able to squeeze in two meetings in this city – one at a small bible college and another in the evening. We were not too optimistic about the evening meeting since many people’s houses were flooded and earlier, when we drove by the venue of the meeting, YMCA, the water was at calf level. However, when we arrived at YMCA at 5 pm, the water had somehow subsided and we were able to walk on dry ground into the building.

To our surprise, almost 30 people turned up for my talk on “The Problem of Suffering”. Some of Kolkata’s church and Christian leaders turned up. When the meeting was over by 7:30pm, the water level had again risen up to above our knees! I had to roll up my pants to get to the car. Thankfully, the organizer of the program rented an SUV as these were the only vehicles that work in such circumstances. By the time I arrived at my hotel, the lobby was already flooded. I was praying that the rain would ease during the night so that the flood would subside to enable me to get to the airport for my flight out.

Well, by morning, the floodwater had gone down at most parts of the city but a stretch of road on the way to the airport was still flooded – waist-high! I was praying so hard that my taxi would not stall like the many vehicles abandoned on the side of the road but make it to the flyover just before the airport. It did! And I was able to make it to my flight on time.

Kolkata is a fascinating city – despite the flood, life seemed to go on as usual. In fact, the night when I was there was when India triumphed over Pakistan in cricket and though the city was flooded up to the waist, I could hear men out in the streets reveling and rejoicing! Though poor, the people of this city appear to have a certain resilience to struggles of life. I’ve got to say that though I only spent a little over 24 hours in this city, it had to be my favorite Indian city so far until…

Last stop: Shillong
My flight touched down at Guwahati but from there, I had to travel another five hours on land (winding roads with major pot holes!) to get to Shillong. This picturesque town is on the northeastern part of India – the area which borders Bangladesh, Burma (I want to refer to this country as Burma and not according to the name the present evil government gave it as a statement that I do not recognize this “illegal” junta!) and Bhutan. Shillong is touted as the “Scotland of the East” and rightly so as it is absolutely breathtaking there! In fact, the first golf course ever in Asia is found here. The colonial Brits used to spend their summers here in this town as it’s at least 5,000 feet above s
ea level and the climate is mild. (See pixs below)

I spent three nights here speaking at two meetings – one at an all-women meeting and another at the North Eastern Hill University. The organizers of the two meetings were pleased with the outcome, so I am glad. The women’s meeting was interesting as the Khasi people group here is matrilineal. This means children take the mother’s last name instead of the father’s. Also, men would move in with their wife’s family after marriage. However, this feature is not to be mistaken to be matriarchal as men are pretty much still the ones “in-charge”!

Then, after 12 days away from home, I laid over at Kolkata for six hours before flying back to the arms of my yearning husband. There is still a lot more to be said about my trip but I want to get this posted as soon as possible and I’m not sure if you were interested in the details! If I remember anything significant, I’ll remember to post it here. Cheers…

Scotland of the East